MediaPressA man has to be interesting, but not desperate | Aftonbladet, February 13, 2001

 

Dominika Peczynski chatted about sex, jewelry and St.Valentine's Day. You can read her thoughts and advises to the members of chat.

DP: Hi! Hello to all lovers! Now I'm here and I'm ready to answer your questions.

Chief: What would you like a man to make on St.Valentine's Day?

DP: I'd like a man to make his purse weak and buy his woman something really expensive.

Hakan: Which flower would you like to be given to you?

DP: Big faceted diamond-flower :-) Wouldn't you like it?

Loverboy: Hi! What do you think a guy should buy to his girlfriend?

DP: Jewelry, jewelry, jewelry…

Liz: Hi! Do you think that age plays important role… when you love somebody?

DP: Age doesn't play a role absolutely while the pair's relationship goes stronger.

Pernilla: What a guy has to do if he is stranded?

DP: If a guy is stranded then it would be rather good of him to give himself as a present.

Rille: What are the best words to suggest to a girl that it's better for her to stay with me than with someone else?

DP: Better to say anything. Better show it with your actions. Once again give her a little jewelry.

Loppan: Hello… can you suggest what can I buy to my fantastic man… jewelry won't suit him…

DP: Some little technical toy maybe. It has always worked with me.

Peter: I have an everlasting pain in my stomach. What can it be?

DP: If a man appreciates St.Valentine's Day then he shouldn't pay attention to it. There is no reason for compulsion. You shouldn't pick on it if you can't help yourself.

Peter I Pitea: Hi, I got a boyfriend 29 years old and he asks when we can see you on TV again?

DP: I leave a single play to be with my old band Army Of Lovers again. So get used to a "corset version" of myself in future. Will it be enough?

Kalle: Where would you invite your boyfriend: to the restaurant or home?

DP: Restaurant.

Linda: Me and my boyfriend are together for almost a half of year. We know each other from in- and outside, before that we were friends for a year. What do you think we should do on St.Valentine's Day?

DP: To go away somewhere if it's possible. It would be great if it's on one night.

Spanish Guitar: Do you prefer blondes or dark haired?

DP: I prefer blondes.

Loppan: talking about in and outside… me and my boyfriend have been together for 14 years then could it be a problem for finding somebody new?

DP: I know what I'd do, but I would refuse definitely.

Sleepy: I'm standing before a hard choosing: red or black underwear for my girlfriend? Please, help!

DP: White one is rather pleasant. Black and red is a bit vulgar, I suppose.

Obsession: What music to play on St.Valentine's Day?

DP: Army Of Lovers, of course!

ODB: What is the best way for a man to congratulate you on St.Valentine's Day?

DP: Visiting a Kaplans Sarif would be ok.

Peter I Pitea: What do you think of a man who doesn't wait any present on St.Valentine's Day?

DP: It's not so much about a man but a woman. It disappoints a lot then.

Anki: What size the ring should be of? Carat?

DP: Do you ask me of how much carat would be enough for a ring; the smallest one.

Sara: What was the best present you was given by a man?

DP: Beautiful watch from my friend.

Lena: What do feel being mother? Do you think it worsens the feeling of being sexual for your man?

DP: You bet!

Michael: Dominika… How is it being in Kuala Lumpur?

DP: Fantastic! Actually I can go there once a year. Super magnificent city!

Blackglasses: Why a man should buy an expensive present, love is not enough?

DP: It's enough in first several months. But in a moment it becomes more intricate.

L8: Why very often a man is tired of a woman in a half of month?

DP: The question is not to me. I've faced it in another way.

Kenneth20: Hi, Dominika! I'm gonna make a proposal to my adorable girlfriend... What do you think am I doing right? Regarding of my unmeaning age… 20?

DP: It's ok because a man can get married for many times if he has a wish.

Marie i Sundsvall: What food do you think should be cooked on St.Valentine's Day?

DP: Try something from Near Eastern with related music. I like it any way.

Spanjoren: Hi! What was the most sexual you got on St.Valentine's Day?

DP: That is not what a sexual man has to have in his mind. Don't you know that we women prefer expensive?

Antonio: Is your man bristly?

DP: A man has to be interesting, but not desperate. It's great when there is somebody you can rely on.

Felicia: How do you imagine your wedding?

DP: I don't want to get married, actually.

Zara: Are you really so self-centered as you seem?

DP: Yes, it has lasted for so long that it is rather hard only to make sense, you know.

Cal: Are you proud that you are a member of Mensa?

DP: I'm not a member of Mensa, on the contrary I have obvious high IQ. And that is good.

Annie: What was the best you presented on St.Valentine's Day?

DP: I guess I've already told about technical toy for a guy. Also if he doesn't like it at least he has to make sense.

Svante: So, if it's OK to buy underwear to a girlfriend. But how long will relationship last after that?

DP: Absolutely there is no man who got refused. After that everything will be ok.

Godismusen: Is it sexy to make love in forest?

DP: You should ask a bear or someone like him.

Kille, 25+: Can you suggest some present of 50-100 kr to send it with mail?

DP: If you want something of 50-100 kr then it's better the distance to be more bigger and it would be enough to send a letter.

Af: Why do you always care only if the present is expensive???? A beautiful word from favorite man is much more romantic!!!!

DP: I don't really care about that, but there are just some people who can't distinguish between joke and seriousness.

Maja: Do you have silicon breast?

DP: No.

Sou: What should a man do to bring back his lost love?

DP: This is probably the world's most hard question. Basically, I have no idea. Try magic, it should work, shouldn't it?

Zara: What is the best you have done in your life?

DP: My daughter Hannah and my enterprise Lovesearch.

Stucke: I want to do something unusual for my man. Can you give an advise?

DP: Go to his home place when he is at work. There will be a surprise.

Banktjanstemannen: What are you going to do tomorrow?

DP: I will work. As usually. Do you want to invite me somewhere or what?

David: It seems like you're only sitting and playing with questions. Am I right?

DP: That is exactly what I'm doing actually. If you look within it more deeper you'll see that this is actually a part of Jewish wisdom.

LADY_POLSKA: Do you speak Polish?

DP: Superficially, ja muwie po Polsku.

Annick: How often do you attend big fests?

DP: Not so often really now. But now I go to the Karaoke-party from time to time. That is supercool.

Sanna: Do you consider yourself to be beautiful?

DP: Do you consider?

Noshorning: Hi Dominika! At first THANK YOU! For the fact that you are with Army again, more over I hope that a new CD with Army Of Lovers will be released and that is the best news from other news of music world.

DP: A new compilation CD is gonna be released. Choir, strings and other stuff we've been waiting for so long.

Lisa: Do you have any suggestion of what can I send to my new net-boyfriend?

DP: Do you have only his e-mail address?

Alexander Bard: What perfume do you prefer most of all?

DP: What's it to you?

Godis*: What is the most impudent you have done to a guy?

DP: That's not about me.

erik: How is it to be famous?

DP: It's OK. I don't think specially a lot about the fact I'm famous.

Sandra: Do you have a boyfriend?

DP: Yes, I have a boyfriend and a child.

Felicia: What do you think of Thastrom?

DP: I don't think anything about Thastrom.

Lisa: Can a man give a rose to a person whom he doesn't know but whom he is interested in?

DP: Absolutely!!!! It's super cool!

Lasse 23: Why the love seems so incredible?

DP: In other way that wouldn't be love.

Godismusen: Are you a royalist?

DP: No, actually I'm an anti-royalist. But not active, but just so.

Antonio: How a person can be changed if he has a society phobia?

DP: One can try to communicate with others via Internet.

Ronja: What a man has to do to be attractive to you? :-)

DP: Ronja, I love u…

leif granth: Can a man make a proposal to his girl-friend on scooter?

DP: It's clear. But it would be better for man to wait when it gets warmer outside. Though it's rather cold in February. I think a girl will be cold.

Blondie: What was your baby's first word?

DP: She is only 6 months so she can't speak yet.

Tobbe: Are you a kind and carrying person?

DP: I'm very loyal person. I'm not much of kindness and care.

Klas: Have you ever been with a person of the same sex?

DP: No. I'm straight and like guys. Among few then majority.

Nuke: What is the first feature you notice in guy?

DP: View. You can see everything in eyes.

Malmokille17: I fell in love with this girl but have no idea if she noticed me.

DP: Get into her circle of friends.

Sanna…: If you were a guy for a day, what would you do?

DP: I would double my salary and wouldn't react on anyone.

Erik: I think, you are the most beautiful Swedish girl!

DP: Erik, will you marry me?

Godismusen: Have you ever had a crisis?

DP: Without any doubts everyone has had it. For about two years ago I had a very serious crisis. It took me all over, but it has gone.

Godismusen: Could homosexual people meet via site?

DP: It's obvious they could.

Andreas: What a man has to do if he is unlucky with love?

DP: I think, maybe it is right that you had an unlucky love and you should try again and again and again…

Sandra: Do you think that men dominate in this world?

DP: It's obvious that it is so, but it's not men's fault.

Robbie: What is the worst women's feature?

DP: It's when woman thinks she is not ahead of other women. But I'm maybe not the right person to be asked.

Aik: Don't you think we have gone from the main topic?

DP: No, I don't think so. I like to discuss other themes.

Sandra: How do you date with your boy-friend?

DP: In the room. Late at night.

Anton: Do you kiss on the first date?

DP: I don't go out with others, so I don't kiss.

Greger: Favorite animal?

DP: Dog.

Ella: Whom would you like to be if you were not who you are now?

DP: I like pigs, though I wouldn't like to be a pig. It looks not so right. I don't have any plan B.

Madman: What color do you think suits a guy most of all?

DP: It doesn't play any role at all. But I prefer blondes.

Hasse: What is the way to make sex more hotter on St.Valentine's Day?

DP: Ask Malena. I don't know.

Sandra: Do you have any homepage?

DP: No, I don't have. But there are heaps of AoL sites on the net.

Ella: Have you heart ever been broken?

DP: Yes, rather serious once.

Thomas: What do you do in spare time?

DP: I don't have much of it, but there is from time to time. But I like to drink coffee and hanging on the phone.

sofia_kalmar: What a man can present to his sister on St.Valentine's Day?

DP: Surely you can give her something that you want for yourself.

Marie: What I have to do if my boy-friend is in the army?

DP: It depends on what are you ready to do for your guy.

Ken: I have this habit of giving valentines to my work's women staff, what do you think of it?

DP: I like valentines.

Sandra: Do you have a pet?

DP: No, but I'm thinking of getting a dog.

Kille16: Do you like sport?

DP: No way. I'm very uninterested in it actually.

Sandra: What do you think of St.Valentine's Day?

DP: It's rather boring that people are focused on love once a year. People can make love the whole year instead of one day.

DP: Goodbye and thank you from me. Have an incredibly pleasant St.Valentine's Day!

Moderator: Thanks Dominika, and thank you all for your questions!


Translated by Michael

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